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Choosing an LGBTQ-Friendly Photographer

Updated: Sep 23, 2023

11 Things You Must Know when Choosing the Perfect LGBTQ-friendly Photographer

Hiring an LGBTQ-friendly photographer is an essential step in planning the perfect gay wedding. Choose right, and you’ll have a stunning collection of photos that will whisk you right back to your big day for many years to come.

Here are some pointers for hiring an LGBTQ-friendly wedding photographer for same-sex couples wishing to create beautiful and lasting photo memories:

1. Talk about it out with your partner

It's not every day that you approach a stranger, spend a significant amount of time posing for beautiful picture memories, or invite them to share in your beautiful moments.

A crucial step in hiring a lesbian/gay photographer is to create a relaxed atmosphere by first discussing it with your partner.

You and your partner should agree on certain photography expectations. Then, find a good middle ground between your respective visions.

For example, you may prefer all candid shots, but your partner prefers traditional posed shots.

And how much do you both want to spend on your perfect day? If you cannot agree. Meet halfway.

2. Connection

The more at ease you and your photographer are with each other, the more at ease you will be with them behind the camera on photo day. There's something to be said about that link.

3. Responsiveness

From the first inquiry, you should be able to tell how responsive they are. Photos are an investment, and you should feel well-cared for from the moment you contact them until the gallery is delivered and beyond.

4. Photographic Styles

This is possibly the most important question to ask a potential photographer during an interview.

Style can vary greatly. Some prefer a more traditional approach, while others prefer to be more artistic.

5. Experience with LGBTQ Weddings

LGBTQ-friendly photographers with experience in gay wedding photography are more likely to capture your big day in a meaningful way.

6. Fun

The most important characteristic to look for in a photographer is one who will make the session enjoyable. Someone who can sergeant you both in to positions without taking the fun out of your big day.

7. Inclusive Portfolio

When considering a photographer for your LGBTQ wedding, take a close look at their portfolio. Ensure that they have experience capturing diverse love stories and showcasing a range of couples from the LGBTQ community. Look for images that reflect different gender identities, orientations, and cultural backgrounds. An inclusive portfolio demonstrates the photographer's understanding and appreciation for the uniqueness of each couple's love story.

8. Pronoun Respect

A photographer who is LGBTQ-friendly should also be respectful of gender pronouns. During your initial conversations, pay attention to how they refer to you and your partner. A photographer who actively seeks to use the correct pronouns and demonstrates a sensitivity towards gender identity will create a more comfortable environment for you and your loved ones.

9. Knowledge of LGBTQ Wedding Traditions

It can be valuable to find a photographer who is familiar with LGBTQ wedding traditions and customs. They should understand the significance of different rituals and be able to capture those moments authentically. Discuss your plans and any specific traditions you want to incorporate, and see if the photographer is knowledgeable and open to incorporating them into the photography.

10. LGBTQ Allies or Affiliations

Consider photographers who actively support LGBTQ rights and equality. Look for indications of their commitment to the community, such as their involvement with LGBTQ organizations or charities. LGBTQ allies are more likely to understand the nuances of LGBTQ weddings and provide a safe and inclusive space for you to express your love.

11. Non-Discriminatory Pricing

Ensure that the photographer's pricing structure is fair and non-discriminatory. LGBTQ-friendly photographers should offer the same packages and pricing options to all couples, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. Avoid any photographers who may have hidden biases that could impact the way they treat or charge LGBTQ clients.

Remember, finding the perfect LGBTQ-friendly photographer is crucial to capturing the authenticity and beauty of your love story. By considering these additional points, you can make an informed decision and choose a photographer who not only takes stunning photos but also respects and celebrates your unique journey.



It's a good idea to start by asking friends and family for recommendations. Not only will you be able to see their work, but you'll also be able to get a personal account of the event.

Google and Bing Search

Like everything else in life, Google has it all. Keep in mind that there are a lot of photographers out there, and their SEO may prevent them from appearing on the first few pages.

Local Listings

Some major cities have "Best of the Best" ranking lists that score highly on Google, and these can be an excellent place to start. These are usually unbiased reviews that will offer you with a big list of photographers to select.


Life moves way too fast. We may not be able to freeze time, but we can photograph the moments that fill our hearts and convey our tales. I'm a Winnipeg photographer who specializes in family, pet and wedding photography and enjoys assisting families in chronicling their lives and capturing some of life's most precious moments. Because I enjoy capturing the actual essence of a person/family and feel that our uniqueness comes in all shapes, sizes, colours, and beauty, my family photography approach tends to be more natural, with minimal manipulation.

For the most recent projects, follow Teri Moore at TAG Photography on Facebook and Instagram.

If you are interested in booking or know more about my wedding photography, please don't hesitate to contact me. Also check out my wedding gallery.


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